our process

How the
work goes.

First Flight is one session to taste it. The Life Change Intensive is the full arc with Luke. Below: what happens, session by session. Prefer a shorter read? Intensive overview → · Book First Flight →

what things cost

Clear numbers.
No surprises.

Discovery call

Free

30 min · fit and next steps

Life Change: Solo

$197

Self-guided Life Change Sessions, with Luke helping along the way

Life Change Intensive

$4,999

Eight in-person sessions · full Life Change arc with Luke

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the path

Three ways in.
One destination.

Most people start with a free discovery call. First Flight is one session to see if live coaching fits. The Life Change Intensive (in person) is the full arc: $4,999 for eight sessions. Solo ($197) is the same curriculum at your pace. Ad hoc coaching is there when you need a session without a package.

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🐦 The First Flight · start here

One 90-minute session. Map your story, name what's going on, and leave with one next move. There's no commitment beyond the conversation. Book a First Flight →

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Life Change Intensive · $4,999 · the full program, in person

The full in-person package through the curriculum: story, vision, identity, relationships, next chapter. See the Intensive → (Self-paced? That's the Solo course, which follows the same curriculum.)

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Coaching · $249 when you need it

Ad hoc sessions with Luke, for when something specific needs working through. No monthly plan required. Book coaching →

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what a session looks like

Ninety minutes that
start with your story.

Whether it's your First Flight or you're deep in the Life Change curriculum, every session follows the same loose structure, with no script or slide deck. This is what it looks like.

Opening · 15 min

Where are you right now?

We start with the moment you're in, as it is. What's weighing on you? What brought you here?

Story mapping · 30 min

Your story, mapped

We trace the arc of your life: the highs, the pivots, what shaped you. Where you've been is useful information, and it usually holds a clue.

The Real Work · 30 min

Finding the underlying issue

Most people come in with a surface problem. We look underneath it at relationships, patterns, and the voice beneath the noise. This is usually where things start to shift.

The Close · 15 min

One next move

We end with one move that's small, doable, and yours, something you can do this week.

After the session

Tools you keep

Visual maps, relationship inventories, writing prompts: whatever we built together is yours to keep, so you leave with something tangible.

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if you want to go deeper

The First Flight is
where it starts.

For those who want to go all the way in person, the Life Change Intensive takes you session by session through everything that shapes who you are and where you're going.

01

Story: Deep Roots & Guiding Winds

Where you came from shapes how you see everything. We go into family of origin, the people who formed you, and the story underneath your story.

02

Vision & Your Why

Before setting goals, we find the why underneath them. What drives you, and is it yours?

03

Identity & Insight

Who are you underneath the roles you play? We go deep on wiring, personality, and the patterns that run your life.

04

Working Through Transitions

The in-between is the hardest part. This session gives you tools for living well in the middle of change, and room to take the next step when you're ready.

05

Life Rhythms & Routines

How you spend your days is how you spend your life. We look at energy, pace, and what a sustainable pace looks like for you.

06

Relationships

No one grows alone. We map the connections that shape you, explore how you're wired to connect, and build a plan for the relationships that matter most.

07

Putting It All Together

The landing session. We look back over the whole process, take stock of what's changed, and build a clear forward plan: your north star, your next 90 days, and your first move.

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what you walk away with

What you leave
with.

Every person's session looks different, but people consistently leave with these.

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A mapped story A visual record of where you've been: the patterns, the pivots, the through-lines you couldn't see because you were too close.
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The real question The question sitting underneath the problem you walked in with. Many people say this alone is worth the session.
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One clear next move A small, doable step that comes from what you want, rather than what you think you should do.
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Permission to go at your pace We won't rush you onto someone else's timeline. You leave okay with where you are, and clearer on what's next.
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who this is for

You, if any of
these sound familiar.

You're changing careers and can't see the landing yet
You've moved cities and lost your sense of who you are
You're between chapters: left something, haven't started the next thing
You're doing fine on the outside, stuck and small on the inside
You know what you should do. You can't make yourself do it.
You're tired of advice and want someone to listen.
You've been "figuring it out" alone for too long
You just did your Inner Compass read and you're ready to go deeper
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clarity check

Coaching vs.
Therapy.

People ask this a lot, so here's the short answer.

Coaching (us)
Focused on where you're going
Works with your present and future
Goal: clarity, action, momentum
You're the expert on your own life
Not a clinical service
Great for transitions & growth
Therapy
Often explores where you've been
Works with past patterns & healing
Goal: healing, processing, insight
Clinician-guided treatment
Licensed mental health service
Great for trauma & mental health

Not sure which you need? That's a perfectly fine question to bring to the discovery call. We'll be straight with you.

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common questions

Questions people
ask us.

Nope. Plenty of people book without a neat "problem" label. You just need to show up willing to talk about what's going on. We'll find the real thing together.
Then you cry. It happens more than you'd think, usually because something true has come up. We won't make it weird. We'll hand you a metaphorical tissue and keep going.
Luke has a ministry background, and that shapes his warmth, but sessions aren't faith-based by default. If your faith is part of your story, it's welcome here. If it's not, that's equally fine.
First Flight is one 90-minute session, the easiest way to see if this fits. The Life Change Intensive is the full in-person program. Solo at lilbird.life/solo/ is the same curriculum self-paced. Monthly is ongoing support. See starting points for the full list.
Great first move. Your profile is a map of your wiring. The natural next step is a First Flight, where we take that and go deeper. We use your results as one input into a bigger picture of who you are and where you're headed.

The next step is
pretty simple.

Start with a free discovery call. We'll talk through what's going on, what things cost, and whether we're the right fit.